RANTT PART 2

The other post was getting long. But I’ll tell my MIL okay I need to feed my LO and she’ll say “I don’t think so she just ate” like woman, breastfed babies eat a little more often. I feed her about every 1.5- 2 hours and she’s 3 months. Her sister had to tell her to listen to me which is crazy to me. But okay, my MIL also asks about our financial situation. Like what have we bought lately, etc. I was raised to never ask anyone about prices or how much someone gets paid etc. It bothers me but realistically I can’t tell her how it is. I’m upfront and honest but I just can not. I do not have it in me to tell his mom how it is. My bf and I live pretty comfortably im a SAHM while I go to nursing school and my bf makes pretty good money at his job. Which confuses me as to why his mom is even worried about what money is spent on. We live in our own house, own 3 cars and are able to make purchases of wants. I tell my bf that it isn’t her business what we buy and he agrees and tells her that it’s not her business but she still asks. My bf recently bought a safe and it was about 500 and he was telling his dad about it and they were talking about some gun idk anyways his mom found out and called him saying he’s irresponsible for spending the money. Anyways she always asks when I plan to go to work. I don’t plan on it because going to work means I need a babysitter and I’m not letting her babysit my daughter when she can’t respect the simple “she gets hot really fast she doesn’t like being held constantly” it’s sad to have to go over and we can’t even mention things without her questioning or freaking out. My bf does not drink and if he does it’s maybe every couple months? But anyways his mom tells me I need to watch him and not ever let him drink and drive and that she feels he gets angry when he drinks and I’m just like?? Are you sure this is your son because you really don’t know him. I’ve been with him over 3 years and he has never once cussed at me, yelled at me, put me down, etc. She raised a very kind gentle loving man and that’s why I do have so much respect for her because her son is a literal gift but idk she really has a negative vibe to her. I just need to vent because I do voice how I feel with my bf but I also don’t feel like complaining to him about it just because it’s his mom and even though he agrees I don’t want that on his chest like maybe feeling in the middle? He’s good at voicing to his mom even though she doesn’t listen so I just wanted to vent thanks to anyone who read it or commented 😭