Me being irrational,stupid or just plain dumb?

Question

I’m 2,I’ve helped my family raise their kids. I went through a miscarriage three years ago…I didn’t know I was pregnant then and my old fuckship didn’t work out. To the point then ig lol,I want to have a kid. But,I’m single and never had a bf or been in any relationship. Idk how a healthy relationship works and I can be too honest and blunt with my words. I don’t want to just have anybody’s baby but,I want a baby like to go half on a baby with someone. My parents are also pushing me to give them grandchildren like bruh,you have two fur grandchildren and so many great nieces and nephews that I watch 4x a week sit down 😂. I would like some advice ig idk. This is weird for me. Ik I’m young but,I don’t want to be a mom pregnant in her 30’s.

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22 lol,I need my glasses on

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You aren't being any of those things. It's perfectly natural to want children just like it's perfectly natural to not want them. If you want a child because YOU want to responsible for the life and caretaking of one, then have a child. No partner needed, just someone's seed. You can get that in many ways. Sperm banks, anonymous donors, friends, "bulls"(people that are breeders and have several children under their belt sort of speak, they can be professional about it and most are well off and stable people which are traits some people look for in donors. Just be aware that they will not be financially responsible for you or the child UNLESS specified by them or you want to battle it out in court) etc.
If you are wanting a child because your family is pressuring you into it then I would say hold off on that. You may end up resenting your child in the future and that would be all bad. Children are a lifelong commitment and a heavy one. Don't make the choice lightly. Weigh the pros and cons of it for your life and lifestyle. You can even speak with your gynecologist and primary care providers to see if you have any hereditary issues that you may pass on to your potential offspring. If I had known about all of the shit that's wrong with me, I honestly wouldn't have had children. Mine didn't crop up until I was in my mid to late twenties but there are tests you can do to determine most health issues and they are far more accurate than before

Me being irrational,stupid or just plain dumb?

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