I just got engaged in May and starting to plan our wedding! I feel like if we have the wedding in 2022, everything will feel rushed. The caterers in my area are all booked up, so we would have to go with the last resort. There is just so much to plan and do in such a short amount of time and I don’t want to rush.

The truth is, as excited as I am about my engagement and wedding, all I can think about is getting pregnant as soon as possible because of my age.

My fiancé is pretty traditional and there is no way he would have a baby before we are married. However, I would like to start trying about 4 months before the wedding. Who has been pregnant during their wedding? Please share your story! 💕

Do you think the difference between getting pregnant at 36.5 verses 37.5 is so big I should do everything I can to get married in 2022, or should I not stress so much about it, have the wedding I really want in 2023 and try to get pregnant at 37.5?

I wish I was just a few years younger. This is such a hard decision for me. I prefer to wait, but don’t want to regret it later because I’d like to have 2 children.