MY BF HELPING OR CONTROLLING?

Question

Okay so I have been on my shit with healthy eating and working out, yesterday I was craving chocolate so I had 2 bars but I kept my calories the same so I wouldn't go over it. Then today my bf saw me eating 1 reese cup and I told him only 1 piece of hershey cookies n cream. And he tells me no I can't eat it I told him I had a long shittt day at work and I wasn't able to make nay food so I only had a yogurt and rice cakes and I just wanted aomething quick and good just a couplw pieces and he tells me no. Now we're in a fight because i told him to give me a break am I beinf dramaitc or what?'

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You're allowed to eat what you want. Even when losing weight we all have cravings and eating some chocolate isn't going to undo all your progress. Do not beat yourself up and tell your boyfriend to back off.

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I mean… substituting chocolate bars for real food (even if the same amount of calories) is extremely unhealthy 
Also puts you at risk of diabetes by shocking your body with such high sugar levels after not eating properly 
He’s probably trying to help since you’re overeating chocolate to compensate lack of food.

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I mean yes and no. He probably is coming off that way because now you're eating candy because it's convenient for you and this is your second day in a row. He can be thinking you're going to fall off your diet then get mad at him for your actions.

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I think he’s trying to hold you accountable since it sounds like you had a goal in mind for yourself. But reminding you of your goal is different from forbidding you to eat something. That’s definitely over the line. You have to want to moderate your chocolate intake for yourself, not because he says so. Having some chocolate is not a big deal, but moderation is key. Additionally, reaching for chocolate because you had a shit day means you’re an emotional eater and that’s not always a good thing. It would be a good idea for you to break that habit.

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Lmaooooo whut.

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Did you ask him to help you want your intake?

MY BF HELPING OR CONTROLLING?

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