Unappreciarive?

Starting from may be April, me and my boyfriend went to the gun range for his birthday, museum of sex, cheesecake factory, one restaurant, axe throwing that I set up, and the movies in July that I set up. With my daughter we have gone to Sky zone, an amusement park, the fair (which I found and paid for ), mini golf and laser tag. I get that it may come off unappreciative but I want to go on dates and walks and little staycations and asking for that just made him tell me to “ get over it “ because “we did things”. We literally sit in his house and fucking sleep. There is no, “ hey I have a surprise for you, be ready at 6”. I literally ask him out on dates. Do I sound unappreciative? I feel like I do and I also feel like I dont cause I literally DONT ASK for ANYTHING.