Was this rude of my mom or am I overreacting ??

Question

So I’ve been having extreme anxiety . The only supporter i have is my boyfriend . I tried to meet people online who may have it but it never works out and some people are weird. Or I would mess around online and joke with people as a distraction from my mental health . My boyfriend understands he dosent have it but dosent judge me . This was a little while ago but it still breaks me . And I’m in therapy as I mentioned .

Accepted Answer

Your mother is a narcissistic gasoline toxic person who is not good for your situation. You need to find other places to stay because she is not good for you she will be the end of you unless you find somewhere else. For what you're going through she is clearly not good for your mental health.

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Rude is understatement. I’d honestly cut her off 🤷🏻‍♀️ She’s not trying to understand what you’re going through and it seems she doesn’t even want to. You deserve to be around supportive people. Medication and healing takes time and anyone who is worth being in your life would understand and allow you to have that time.

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Very rude. I personally would avoid her

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She needs to learn how to use the phrase ‘my ass.’Also, she’s being a bitch to you. Sometimes we just have to cut our losses. Stop speaking to her about things she only puts you down about. Like mental health. 
If you live with her (internet comment), I’m so sorry. I remember counting days until I was 18 to get the fuck out. It was really bad. 
If you don’t (seems like you’re in charge of your therapy & drugs), stop talking to her. I’ve gone more than half a year without speaking to my stepmom(god do I feel so much better) and I’ve gone months only speaking a few words a day-week to my mom. I was angry with my mom and I value my peace now with regard to my stepmom and my mom both. Why waste energy fighting with people who don’t care enough to try to understand.?
Sometimes you have to realize people don’t care enough to try and just do your best to move past it.

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Girl, she is  a bitch! I'm so sorry.

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this is so out of context ... sorry you're going through what you're going through - but we don't know the full story and your mum has even written 'talk to me ' and 'your behaviour is worrying me ' meaning she has tried to be there for you or wants to be there for you... Also everyone interprets text messages differently and reads them in different tones...

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She clearly has no empathy towards you, no compassion and no love. You are her child, and should want to help you the best way she believes, and even if she doesn’t have the answers she should TRY to research things to make you feel better or even comfortable. My SO has mental health BPD and other stuff, it’s testing at times it really is, but because I know what it Feels like to not know, feel alone, scared and trapped in your mind I wouldn’t want someone else to feel that way, especially if I love them. What I’m going to suggest you do is cut her off and out your life, you don’t need people like that in your life, especially when you’re trying to get better yourself, you live with this everyday and to have someone that is YOUR mother not even see or try! She believes you are making up excuses. I promise you she will make you go backwards, she isn’t helping you so that means she has to get left. You have your boyfriend who tried. Trying makes a massive difference, you have us on here also 🤍 I really hope you get the support you need and even if you don’t. At least know yourself enough that no1 could bring you down by what they say x

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there’s something wrong with her. I have OCD and my mom is the same, I tried to get help from her and she acted like this (she’s an alcoholic). cut contact

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You’re definitely not overreacting!!

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It’s called the Trauma cycle.. your mom didn’t learn properly so this is how she’s acting. No it’s not okay

Was this rude of my mom or am I overreacting ??

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