Break up
I just broke up with my bf of a year. I’m 9 weeks pregnant which he’s been knowing about. The reason is because I’ve been having really bad trust issues with him. Idk I have this gut feeling always that he’s doing something behind my back and I’ve always had his password and location but recently he switched his password to his phone and took off his location. He says “if I can’t have yours u can’t have mine” keep in mind I’ve had his for a year and this was never a problem and he’s never asked me for mine I’ve made it clear to him that if he wants it I’ll give it to him but he says he doesn’t care he doesn’t want it anymore. He tells me I need help for assuming things that I’m crazy. He does show me his phone if I ask him and I show him mine too and he’s never cheated on me and I never have either. I left earlier because he was like ima go pick up my check and go shopping bye. And left me alone at his parents house where we’re staying at. Idk why he’s acting that way with me. He was never like this. Idk what to do I’m super sad can’t eat I’m just throwing up all day he called me once after I left trying to talk and when I tried to tell him something he would bring up my ex that cheated on me and said u should’ve treated him like that. And he hung up and hasn’t called me back… his family’s always telling him to leave me too. I’m just so confused.. and also he has a 150k car and he was about to get it repo bc he couldn’t pay it but now he’s caught up and has money again and I noticed that ever since he’s caught up with his bills and has money he’s started acting weird with me like distant. Maybe this isn’t a big deal too but he went from texting me all day even during work and sending me pics of him telling me good morning I love you to legit not texting all day just getting home and that’s the first time during the day I’ll speak with him. He always says I have nothing to worry about but all these little things make me get in my head and wonder if there’s someone else… it just breaks me…
Yes a $150k car it’s a Shelby mustang 2020 🙁 I told him to trade it in for something cheaper especially since we aren’t rich at all we aren’t Poor either but were not financially stable for that his payments are $1500 a month +300 insurance and he only makes 7-800 a week..
Honestly I think he only got that car for the girls. Before he met me no girl would talk to him unless he sent them money like literally not even lying. He sent a girl he never met 3k bc he thought she actually liked him and she ended up having a whole bf. She lives across the country lol. So I think he got the car so girls could like him. I guess to make him feel better.
Oh and also he spends about $100 for weed every two weeks which he said he was gonna stop smoking once I got pregnant because this baby was planned he wanted it.
We were looking for a aparmtnet but idk what happened to his credit he had 800 credit score and it went down very low and then he went broke and now he’s just getting his bills back payed and getting his money and he’s saying he now wants to look for a apartment but honestly I feel like he’s never gonna leave his parents. He claims that he’s there to help his dad bc he has eyesight problems but I’m like you have 3 other siblings that are older than you why do you have to be the only one. His brother sells drugs and asks his parents for money he lives there too his sister lives in one of their houses hasn’t payed 1k rent to her dad in months and her bf lives there too doesn’t even work and the other sister left to another city with her bf but her dad still sends money to her so my bf is the only one helping.
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