Is this cheating?

Oh my god I just left his house right now. I’m confused😢

So about 2 months ago my bf and I had a conversation about boundaries and respect. We had the conversation about porn and I told him I don’t mind him watching it. He admitted he watched it when he was younger but he has lost interest in it.

He talked about following models on social media. I told him I didn’t care but it would throw me off if he followed random girls that were not models or celebrities. (FYI: he doesn’t follow any models or girls)

We were just having this conversation. Then I asked what would be something that bothered him. He told me he doesn’t feel comfortable when I post pictures showing my body. Not naked but anything like showing too much cleavage or crop tops, shorts, or sexy poses. I respected that.

So last week, I posted a picture and it did show cleavage. Yes I felt bad don’t get me wrong I just posted it without taking into his consideration his feelings. So he blocked me. 🥴 he reached out and apologized and told me he didn’t like that “shit” he said that it makes the women look like she’s seeking validation. I apologized and told him it wasn’t my intention.

Well just right now….I found old messages between a girl and him. My heart froze. They weren’t friends with each-other but you can still direct message people without being friends. She didn’t have any pictures just her profile picture. I send these screenshots to myself

Purple is him

Grey is her.

She starts the convo by saying “hey you’re cute”

These messages happened a month ago!!! He told me they never met and he did fuck up by entertaining a bot.

Like why was he telling me about my pictures and blah blah and he does this…

Sure I get weirdos messaging me but I don’t entertain fake accounts

He told me his friend and him were just bored at work and were trying to tease the robot!!!!