Married only a month, hubby went to a strip club
I am newly married (August 6, 2021) and life has been feeling like a beautiful dream. But last week I started feeling just sad, I couldn't explain why. My hubby was feeling frustrated because he couldn't understand why I was upset. This started leading to arguments, that I'm not upset, he isn't doing anything wrong, he isn't a failure...
In retrospect I can see the turmoil I was working though. When I hit married I moved out of the home I shared with my 22 year old son. First time we have ever lived apart. I moved into my husband's home full of his belongings. I left my two cats, I miss deeply and replaced his cat that hates me. I am getting used to having to check in...
All these things are little but they hit me and I was miserable. On Friday night I went to bed early. As I was sleeping my hubby got dressed, leaving his wedding ring on the coffee table he caught an Uber to a strip club. He did not return until 7:20am the next day.
He has never behaved in such a way before. He is usually sweet, kind and attentive. He is 42 and this is his guest marriage. He has not really had any other long-term relationship.
He seems very remorseful and says he just went to a house party with a bunch of guys after. I am crushed. We have been married only one month.
Is this what my life is going to look like if I stay? I don't know if I should just get an annulment.
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