treated differently?

I have no clue if I am overreacting. I have been with my bf for 4 yrs. in that 4 yrs we have had lots of issues with how he is with his friend sean. i’ve always felt he’s a priority over me even when he had treated my boyfriend like absolute shit (made him cry).

recently I have been trying to get my bf to spend more time with me with work and school it’s been hard too. he had bought a new gaming computer and he’s been playing that which I understand. but the days we’re off he doesn’t play and he’s usually over with sean and I don’t see him. example I had a 3 day weekend on labor day and not one day was spent with him.

I have suggested things that he likes to like going to new fishing spots to try out bc ive researched in my area as well as asked fishing friends. every single time I get shot down. his friend messages him today and tells him of a new fishing spot he wants to try (one I have suggested) and my bf jumps on it and is ready to go fish there. it upsets me bc he always does this with him. I told him how I felt and it’s gotten to the point i’m getting exhausted trying to make him see.

if anyone has any advice on what I could do even if it is breaking up i’d really appreciate it.