Husband talking to his moms about his life

My MIL's are over and I overheard my husband talking to them. They are lesbians which is fine. Nothing wrong with that. I just can't stand them because they're hippies. Vegan, believe in crystals. Plays the flute and ukulele. My kids adore them. A lot of people told me in my old post that I'm just grumpy. Idk. I guess thinking about it my parents are grumpy. They aren't very touchy feely. Very strict. Have manners. Be a lady. Like I went to basically a finishing school.

They live across the country with my husband's other siblings. His siblings were made through a sperm donor. He's the only adopted one. He moved across the country to be with me. My husband is no longer vegan. He's vegetarian but eats more vegan when they're here.

My MIL's put the kids to bed and I was downstairs but heard them talking on the balcony. His mom was asking how he the kids were in school and my husband said "Not good. Mia is being bullied by snobby mean girls and Malcolm's special ed isn't helping. He says they just put him on the computer all day. And June can't go back to work anytime soon because these daycares here SUCK and we don't trust them for Skyler". Then he started talking about how much I miss working in a hospital which is true. His Mama said "Have you thought about moving back closer to home. I mean you loved the school when you were younger. And you have babysitters right here and the hospital is amazing. June would love it". He started saying he would love to move back closer to home but that I wouldn't want that.

So they ask him if he's happy here and I see him start to tear up and say "No. I want to be closer to home. Maybe get my old job back in construction with Carlos. But I'll do anything for June". Then his Mama said "You put everyone before yourself. You're a selfless amazing man". And they both hugged him and kissed him on the cheek.

I guess it's got me thinking. Idk... He is so family oriented... He loves his family. But he gave up his job for me, moved for me, even agreed to have a third kid for me. He knew I couldn't live with the whole vegan stuff because most places I like to go aren't vegan and have cheese because I love cheese so he switched to vegetarian. Honestly... He's made a million sacrifices... And I complained about his mom's coming down. Who he never sees and obviously misses...

Edit: I don't really know what to do. Obviously he wants to move closer to family.... And our kids like his family wayyy more than mine down here. And honestly I've been wanting to switch my daughter schools because the bullying is so bad.... But would I even fit in where they live?

One thing I know I need to do is tell him if he wants he can go back to being vegan. I pretty much told him I can't be with someone who can't eat cheese with me which is why he gave up veganism. I still eat meat and I realize now how stupid and toxic that was.

Edit: Maybe I could start small before saying Let's move there and vacation to his home town because in our 14 years of marriage I've actually never went with him to his home town.