Ultrasound anxiety

Looking for peace of mind.

I don’t trust my obgyn. Every time I go in she makes me worry! When I go for an ultrasound, even though the babies heart rate and size is always optimal, she complains about my baby looking weak and tired. She says there’s not enough movement, even though I usually go in for my ultrasounds in the morning on an empty stomach and low energy. (I can’t get in my car if I’ve just eaten it makes me sick and the ultrasound is uncomfortable if I’ve got food in my belly).

According to everyone online it’s rare to see the baby kicking around in an ultrasound because babies are usually asleep. Right?

She also comments on my weight. The last time I went in she said I was too thin for 4 and a half months and I am obviously not eating enough and that’s probably why the baby is weak.

I DO eat enough and I am putting on weight. I used to weigh 54KG and I am now 57! I don’t understand why she is like this. Has anyone else experienced anything similar?