Overbearing boyfriend

So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a few months, and we are trying to figure each other out still. I work two jobs, and sometimes I just take time to myself and sleep. Theres just so much going on that I need a bit to recharge. My boyfriend however freaked out when I hardly spoke to him for two days. All I did was just recharge and get away from everyone. I needed sleep and instead I got the police knocking on my moms door, and my friends to see where i was. I feel like this is just a screwed up way to control me, and now I have to find another job. It also bothers me that hes a highschool teacher and he keeps in contact with his students that have graduated. He points it out to me that he knows a female student that works at buffalo wings, and the place i work. Why? Why do you know female students and where they work?. Why tell me these things? Im getting paranoid as hell about the fact that he involved the police and he called my work places too.

I think I’m just done.