How did you know?

How did you know you were done having kids? How did you make the decision to have another one or stop with what you have?

My SO would love to have another child but I'm on the fence. We have 2 and with both of them we lived one of our parents house so I never had the pregnancy and coming home to our own home feeling. ( we lived on our on after I had out first but we had to move back home and things were hard. Then we were getting out while I was pregnant with my second and lost my job so we had to move back in. We have been out on our own for almost 3 years now.) So I feel like I was robbed of that a little bit. And I miss having a tiny baby but I also don't know if I want to go through pregnancy again. And going through diapers and buying baby stuff (we have none).

I am struggling to figure it out. I will be 26 in 7 months and I told my SO after 26 I am done with getting pregnant. So with me being close to 26 we brought the subject of do we want another one up.

Just wanted to put this out hoping typing it out would help me figure it out🤣🤣🤣