As a military wife, I need advice

My husband is stationed overseas and I am fortunate enough to have been able to be here with him for 2 years. We are a year in and originally had one year left but we put in an extension for an additional 2 years, got approved and these are the reasons why:

<a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> is 5 grand here vs 15-20 grand stateside

Pay off debt quicker

But, I am now wanting to put in a request to cancel and here is why:

Been here for a year and haven't adjusted

Depression has gotten noticeably worse since being here

Feels isolating

No family here

Feel like I'm in a really dark hole in general with mental health that gets worse

I just don't know if the financial reasons should outweigh the other factors

I don't know what to do

My husband supports either choice

Should I suck it up and deal with it for a better situation fincially if we go back stateside with no debt? And having had been able to do <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">ivf</a> which is the only chance we have at conceiving?

What would you do?