Terrible 2’s 😓👦🏽

My son is definitely in his terrible 2’s phase, we struggle with food (extremely picky), he throws major tantrums for things he knows he isn’t suppose to have or do, and overall it’s like he runs the house. We sleep on his time, eat on his time, wake up on his time & I feel like he is definitely giving me a run for my money plus he’s still trying to workout this talking thing.

I just want some advice, am I the only mom that feels like I don’t have proper control over her toddler?