Destructive

I have a 3 year old boy and a recently turned 2 year old boy. My kids are loud and super destructive.

I have tried crafts with them to kind of bring their destructive behavior into something creative that they can put together instead of tear apart however they either lose focus or they want to destroy what they made after making it. I've gotten toys that are take apart and put together and yet they only care to destroy and take them apart. I've done the string and beads and again only like the take apart part of the activity.

I'm so sick and tired of my kids destroying toys the minute they get them, or destroying my and their dad's belongings. I had a music box and left it on a shelf and they tore it completely apart withing 15 minutes. They literally ripped it piece by piece apart.

Their toys never last because they enjoy destroying them. They've manage to dismember metal Tonka trucks. Yes they get watched almost all day. But all parents need a break. An they get 2x 30 min in your room independent play times. During this time they seem to break everything. I've had to resort to closing their door however because they try to climb, or will kick and pound on their metal baby gate til it breaks open and they're able gi get out. They've gone through 3 metal baby gates now. Have broken half of their toys. I can't not let them have toys otherwise they start to touch and get into everything of their dad's and mine.

They get lots of love and attention I get on the floor and play trains and cars with them. I color with them, do other crafts. I let them run about amd play and will get on the floor and play with them, such as horsey, spaceship, Piggy-back rides, dinosaurs. I even play on the playground with them going down the slides, running around with them.

I don't know what to do I'm not attention depriving them. But it seems the minute I take my eye off them for a second they are breaking whatever is in reach.

I need advice, asap I'm just so tired of seeing money get wasted as their toys usually aren't cheap.

Yes we have done corner time, we've taken toys away. We've had talks about how to play nice with toys. They know how to ply right with things and know what they can and can't touch. But like I said as soon as they don't have 100% supervision they destroy whatever is in reach.