How do you guys initiate sex while TTC?

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This is probably a weird question but does your partner seem up for it or is it just you using him? I feel like trying to get my bf to have sex with me while we're TTC is horrible... I regret it everytime... sometimes he will say he's too tired or he will stop midway and not even finish..... im so lost

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My husband was the same way. He explained to me that it isn't the same as spontaneous sex which duh I know. He gets like a mental block and it's difficult for him to continue. It's like having sex but without being in the mood or something. I try to spring it on him sometimes like pretend spontaneity but it's hard to do after so many months. I get it. It's not that he doesn't want another baby but timed sex isn't fun... for me as well. 😕

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It’s 50/50 initiating with us. Are you sure he’s ready for a baby?

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Yes, we initiate equally. Usually me more so during my fertile week though as it’s me doing the OPKS so I know when’s most important, however he never stops me. I think you need to sit down and have a chat x

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It sounds like you need to have a talk with him and find out if he really wants a baby right now. If he wants to TTC I don't think he'd be stopping midway or making you initiate every time. My husband is just as involved as I am in TTC and we initiate equally.

How do you guys initiate sex while TTC?

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