Vaginal Tightness during Sex

Ok, does anybody have any pointers on how to help when vaginal tightness is a thing?? Like I’m totally into what we’re doing and sometimes I’m just so damn tight down there! We use live when we have to, but I’m not the biggest fan of lube…is there ANYTHING else I can try to help it?! I run into this issue with both toys and his lovely piece of equipment…

I’m 17+6 for reference