First baby girl but second child in 10 years!

Okay ladies. I’m almost 34 weeks and having my first little girl but second child in 10 years. Things have changed so much since I’ve had my son, it’s so different to me. The bottles, even clothing has changed it seems lol. What are the recommended things needed for a little girl. I currently have her diaper bag packed. What are some must haves I should pack that maybe I didn’t think to pack. What are some things we should buy/shouldn’t buy. We have a bit of stuff for her but I just want to make sure I have everything I need before she comes. My husband works 2 1/2 hours away so I’ll be home with both of our sons with her by myself and I know it’s going to be hectic so I’d rather have it all done and ready before she gets here. Ahh so nervous but so excited at the same time. Lol. Also I will be attempting to breastfeed so any ideas with that also will be helpful!!