Just venting: but please someone let me know I’ll not alone

I live at home in my moms house I pay the water have a part time job as a cashier and a 19 month toddler who we share a bedroom.

Our room is a mess I try so hard to clean it and I’m always told to ask for help but when I do I hear “teach her how to clean up”

It’s like this

Them: Clean your room.

Me: can I have help?

Them: (crickets chirping)

Also my biggest pet peeve is being told something I already know. Telling me to clean my room is moot because I already know it needs to be cleaned