How to orgasam? Am I broken?

Question

So about a year ago I gave up on having sex because I couldn’t find any that could make me Orgasm. Sometimes someone will say it’s the person your doing it with and hype themselves up. 
I have made my self do it  countless times but never during intercourse.
Does anyone have any tips on what to do? My solution was to just not do the deed anymore.

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You are not broken, I also have never orgasmed during sex. I don’t even try to tbh, I know it will never happen and that doesn’t make it less fun for me. I hope in the future I’m able to orgasm during sex but I’m not working on it. After it I finish the job myself sometimes. And he also doesn’t always orgasm during sex, so we finish together. I can not help you on how to orgasm during sex but I hope this makes you less insecure about it. And again you are not broken.

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Not everyone orgasms during sex, some need toys or solely clit stimulation to get there. In fact 50-75% of women never orgasm from intercourse alone.

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Absolutely not broken and please don't stop having sex unless it's what you really want to do. 
Sex with a partner is more about intimacy than anything else. We can give ourselves the big O in a few minutes so learn to do that. I enjoy being with my man even when I know I'm not going to reach the end goal. But I LOVE the kissing, God I love kissing lol, I could makeout for days, I love the pillow talk and the trying out new stuff, it's just SO much fun. So don't put so much pressure on yourself and on the man who's gonna come trying his best but will have already lost the battle to your fears. Just take a deep breath! Enjoy the man and the moment and then learn to use your own equipment so you can guide him later.

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Does it feel good? I'm not sure if I orgasm or not(aside from this one time) but it doesn't matter because it feels great but only once or twice a year, but if it doesn't feel good enough or you still want to orgasm, ask, are you having your clitoris stimulated? Or do you only like vaginal or some other kind of stimulation? Do what feels good and an orgasm should build from there, if you practice for 15 to 30 minutes for a few weeks. Or you could try a large wand vibrator and if those don't work, a registered sex therapist could help.

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Yup, I didn't orgasm for 8 years of intercourse with a dozen people. With my current partner we found I need a vibe on my clit while having sex and I can get there no problem. Be selfish,  find what works for you. It also took five vibes to find the one that had the vibration level I needed.

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Girl there is nothing wrong with not getting there with his penetration. Foreplay can be your best friend in this situation! Buy yourself a vibrator, lay down on the edge of the bed, have him stand up and give him oral while you’re laying down doing your thing. Then once you are finished do the deed to get him off and call it a day! If you’re uncomfortable at all the first few times a little alcohol never hurts😉 Toys can be a girls best friend! ❤️

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Get him a vibrating cock ring. If I am having a hard time getting there this does the trick just about every time. I like this better than a vibrater. Vibrators are good when he isn't inside you.

How to orgasam? Am I broken?

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