Do you find it weird when men lust after ‘single mothers’?

I’m not a single mother nor mother at all but for some reason whenever I see a guy online sharing memes about single mothers it kinda creeps me out. Like, there’s so many things they could say like “She’s a hardworking woman”, “She’s gotten herself where she needs to” I DONT KNOWWW so many things yet all see is “I’ll raise that baby for ya🥵” “I’ll be your baby daddy🥴”

I feel that if I were a single mother I would not even engage with someone like that because why are you trying to act as if you’re gonna be playing dad? Yes, of course, who you choose as a partner will play a role in your child’s life but I think y’all know what I mean.

Maybe I’m just looking too much into it 😂