Sex doesn't feel that good?

Whether it's masturbation, oral sex or penetrative sex, it almost always feels neutral or a little good at best. It only feels good or great once or twice a year in my dreams or real life. I've tried toys, too. A small wand, a large wand, wand attachments, small dildo, large dildo and next up to try is a strapless strap on and a clitoral suction toy. After that, I'm not getting anymore toys, ahaha. I take medication but I've had this problem before the meds and I'm seeing a sex therapist. I'm taking their advice but I'm wondering what has helped other people. Thanks :)