What is going on?

My bf of 4 years is acting out of hand. 2 weeks ago, we got into an argument. Well it wasn’t even an argument. On Saturday I sent him some cute selfies and he responded by telling me he didn’t wanna see them. He seemed pretty mad I send them and turns out he didn’t like what I was wearing. I was just trying to do what it seemed to be a cute gesture. He didn’t ignore me for a couple of hours he ended up ignoring me for 9 days because he was “mad” long story short, I was getting very anxious. I don’t like being ignored that long. Call me crazy but I start over thinking like “is he talking to other girls?” Or “does he not love me?”

The first thing I did which maybe I shouldn’t have done was tell his mom. I texted her telling i didn’t feel good. I wanted an honest answer and maybe she’d tell me what was wrong with what I did. Did I provoke him? What really went wrong? I told her he ignored me over pics I sent. She told me that her son has issues communicating and to please ignore.

I really couldn’t hold it no more so I blocked him hoping I’d distract myself. 2 days ago he got a hold of me through a friends phone to please unblock him that he wanted to talk. He said it’s childish to block….

So I did unblock and he we continued talking on his phone.

So first he said this. He said my name.

We were having issues with the phone.

He never responded after I said “oh okay”

The next day which was yesterday he only texted me to sorta blame me?

He said that since I showed his mom the house has had major problems. That he’s been ready to punch his dad?

He told me he’d call me but never did. He responded 8 hours later….

I expressed my feelings and told him that him ignoring me causes a lot of insecurities in me like if he’s cheating on me and so forth.

He never replied to my text and I see he was on social media. I texted “when will you be ready to talk? You seem to promise you’ll call and you don’t. You text me to fix things and you ignore my questions”

Proceeded to call me a bitch.

I feel like he’s making this all about him. He doesn’t recognize he hurt me. I feel like he should provide with an explanation why he ignored me and talking about us Instead he comes talking about his dad. Shouldn’t he be apologizing