The right thing to do 💭

My boyfriend makes a little more money than I do but he has more responsibilities than me..

Last year xmass I bought myself and him tickets for a show that was supposed to happen but got cancelled

On his birthday I bought us another tickets for the weeknd show but also got cancelled

Now I don’t know what to do tbh with that money, like should I give him the money cause it’s supposed to be his as the shows been cancelled?

Or should I used that money to buy him some else?

>> is it fair if I use that money to buy him a Xmas present ❓

He always take me by surprise getting me small things here and there to make me smile, which he asked in a “joking” way : how come you don’t get me the smallest things really that brings me smiles? Like I do to you..

Bare in mind my boyfriend always goes hard to please me with presents but yet I get the feeling I don’t really return the favour, he’s a 1 euro kinda guy meaning he doesn’t expect much on gifts even his family got money but all he really expects it’s like a pack of popcorn to make his day