Ex has his first strike, and it’s a doozy UPDATE

Two years ago, my ex, Z, broke up with me after 6 months.

He is 2 years younger than me and it sadly showed.

I dated another guy after him for almost a years, ended in another “I was ready, he wasn’t”

A month after that, Z reached out to me.

We have been talking since September.

He currently works out of state and moves around a lot, a big reason he dumped me.

We have now reached strike one of his.

I have secretly been keeping track of all his red flags and if they changed.

Here’s our first, super terrible one.

He likes to talk about girls flirting with him.

Now he’s not ugly, but he’s not conveniently attractive either. So the idea girls constantly come up to him and flirt with him is hard to believe.

I do get hit on a bit, but I never bring it up cause why would i?

He texted me tonight that he had a rough day and I asked why.

“Lady from coffee shop got too attached when I might’ve accidentally led her on, and she wanted to get dinner tonight but I told her I have dinner with the boss today”

And I said well she shit her shit and there’s nothing wrong with that.

He then sad he gave her his Snapchat and she’s been texting her all day.

“Every second texting me, not letting me have any time when I think the message is clear that I don’t wanna talk “

He said he gave it to her cause he didn’t want to be rude.

I told him to tell her he has a girlfriend or he’s not interested in her.

“Well I don’t wanna lie!”

Then he said he’s never do anything

I said I lie to dudes all the time and he said “Yeah make me the bad guy for this”

If he’s doing this while we are talking and series, like he told me he loves me still, then how can I trust he won’t when we are official?

UPDATE:

Yes one so soon

I told him doing that isn’t smart cause it’s not nice to do that to girls, lead them on and stuff.

“I’ll never see them again, it’s not my fault if they get attached”

I’m def not gonna waste my time with him anymore.

I had so much hope for him at first, damn