Lube?

Question

I’m 17 and I’ve tried sex a couple times but it still doesn’t feel good. We are only using the lube on the condom and however wet I am as lube. Do you think it might still not feel great bc I’m not using enough lube? Idk I feel kinda weird needing lube at 17

Answer

Maybe not enough foreplay? The muscles down there are extremely strong and pretty much constantly engaged, they relax during arousal which allows the penis to go in comfortably. But it’s not just “being in the mood” mentally that relaxes the muscles a lot of the time. The stimulation of foreplay is also often necessary to relax these muscles. 
There are also potential anatomical reasons, an uncommon development of the hymen or angle of the cervix. It may be worth it to visit the doctor with the question of an anatomical explanation.

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