Boyfriend problem?

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When me an my boyfriend are out he will comment on girls being ugly or not attractive or they they have man voice. When clearly they are pretty or dressing slutty. It makes me think he is trying to make me think that he doesn't find them attractive. Why would he do that? He also has done this with his coworker... One which calls him her bestie... She is thicker... He tells me I have nothing to worry about because she has a pear shape body and isn't attractive to him.  But I feel like maybe all of this is just his way of distracting me... Do I sound crazy or is this something I should worry about?

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Every single potential explanation I can think of is a red flag. I’d run.

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Its hard to say what his intentions are. 
Could be that he actually finds them attractive and is going out of his way to lie about it. 
Could be that he's a cheater and overcompensating to hide it. 
Could be that he's trying to make you feel good by dissing other women. 
Could be that he just really isn't into those girls/styles and just doesn't have a filter about it. 
Could be that he doesn't like those things and is trying to hint to you to not dress or look or talk certain ways that he's pointing out he doesn't like. 
I would try to have a conversation about it and find out why does that and discuss why it bothers you, etc.

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He sounds like an asshole.

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He’s lying

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He’s a dickhead. He shouldn’t be insulting people for any reason.

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Ask him. It’s weird to shit on people for no reason 🤨
I suspect he is either A: attracted to them but trying to divert your attention by weirdly pointing it out in a negative way or B: trying to compliment you but has no tact or social skill.

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I don’t know why they do this, but either way it’s a red flag in my opinion. Either he is judging people on appearances constantly, or he’s trying to make you think there’s no possible way he could be attracted to them. The first one is a red flag because it is not OK to pick apart people’s physical appearances constantly. Especially women, it’s misogynistic behavior. The second one is a red flag because cheaters will often do this. I was with someone who did this constantly and also cheated on me constantly. When there were women I had questions about, he would say things like she’s fat, she’s ugly, pointing out this flaw or that flaw, or he’d say she’s a lesbian (when she’s not). You name it and he said it to make it seem like he was not interested. So just be careful either way.

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Ask him. Maybe it has to do with a previous relationship, maybe he's trying to make you feel pretty, who knows.

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Next tell him, “I think she looks hawwwwt” 
I pointed out one time that a women looks so good in her outfit and my fiancé was like “Do you want me to run her over???” 🤣 He thought I was tricking him into agreeing with me but nah. I used to feel really insecure but now I’m pretty confident. Now for your boyfriend, maybe he doesn’t want to make you feel bad but you’ll only know if you ask him.

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My husband is repulsed by women dressing slutty even if shes attractive. But the pear shaped body comment, Im not sure.

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