Baby names

Ladies I love my choice for names and my bf’s sister did too she recently passed away and now in mornin the loss of her my bf insist her name be our daughters name yet it’s not the name she herself loved and I’m torn between the name I love and her own name. I did somehow convince him in a new name with hers as a middle name but he always complains in front his friends and makes me feel uncomfortable about naming the baby if it’s a girl and pray hard if I have a son over a daughter and I know woman usually name there daughter something meaningful to them.