Martial relations and kids

My husband and I are having difficulty find common ground. He wants our martial relations to be exactly how they were before having kids. We would engage in them if not every single day, it would be at least 6 days a week.

Now with a little one running around Momma is tired and not really “in the mood” all the time. I still want to be close but more like 3x a week because of so much going on. I still give in when he wants to but I’m not fully there. I’ve explained this to him and he says that as a Christian married couple children should effect the bedroom. While I understand and have explained that just giving in to give in doesn’t make me feel close to him. He gets sad and pouts sometimes and it makes me feel awful. I feel like I’m going against what God wants for our marriage. But then I feel like so is my husband because he’s not taking how I’m doing into consideration.

I’ve been praying about it and was just wondering if my Christian sisters could give me some insight. TIA