Pubes in the shower

My husband and I clean after one another but I’m the one who does the serious house cleaning. I noticed when I stepped into the shower he left all his shaved hair with the electric razor all over the shower. I got grossed out bc that’s one thing that crosses the line for me. It’s just gross!! He was laying down on the sofa and I asked him to please clean it up (didn’t know he was sleeping). The next morning I was still feeling a little salty about it and told him if he could please remove his hair. He flipped and told me I say things at the most inconvenient time and I should have just picked it up since he cleans my hair out the shower. I feel it’s different and I usually am ok top of any of my hair in the shower. He then starts to throw a bunch of things that he does for me in my face that I had no knowledge of. Such as him cleaning blood off the bed sheets (I asked him if I got anything on them when we had sex and he said no he just wanted to wash them). I’m honestly the type of person who wouldn’t get offended if I did something and was called out on it. It’s good for me to know so I’m aware and don’t do it. I don’t feel like telling me to pick up his hair in the shower is very nice and it disgusts me since it was a pile. I feel it’s very much different from the hair on my head.