Is this narcisstic behavior? Will it repeat again

Im a bit embarrassed about posting this again. I honestly just need proper advice.

Back in October I posted about my bf ignoring me for 9 days over a dress I showed him that I wanted to buy for a family gathering. My bf got pissed I was showing him revealing dresses and he decided to ignore me.

Well a lot of you ladies said to block because he’s been doing this for 2x times already (the whole ignoring for days). He sucks at communicating. I didn’t block but removed him off socials and deleted his contact info. 9 days later he reached out he wanted to talk. I told him I couldn’t tolerate being ignored. He never bothered to say sorry. Ignored me for another 4 days. Whenever I asked for an explanation, he never could provide one or an apology. He’d say he’d call but never did. He’d leave me hanging.

He finally couldn’t take it and he reached out last week if we can please talk. Weeks later!!!!!!!

He finally told me he was ignoring me because he saw people our age having kids and we couldn’t. He said it made him depressed that we were fighting frequently and that we couldn’t have kids because “I wasn’t willing to get pregnant”

1. I only work part time at the moment

2. He ignores me for days and expects me to give him a child

3. We don’t live together.

I’ve voiced all of this to him and he just says “we will figure it out. A baby is a blessing. It isn’t planned”

I hate how he said it was because of ME. LOL!!!!! He ignored me? How was this my fault. Threw the full blame at me. Yes, I came off needy when I told him don’t ignore me for days but he’d block me off and on when we argued.

I suggested therapy and he said he was okay with going with me bc he didn’t want to lose me. I’ll be honest, I wanted to cry when he told me he loves me so much and can’t live without me but also I find it a bit of shitty lies? I find it like he’s manipulating me agian and love bombing me …maybe I’m wrong 😥

It’s been a week that we’ve talked and he’s really really nice and very Romantic. I’m scared this is just a phase and he will continue with his ignoring behavior. We have cycles of good times and then he ignores again.

Worst part is he’s told me. 3 times already that he wants a family as in me getting pregnant. I mentioned how we need to work on communication and he says “I don’t wanna fight and it’s YOU acting like a brat”

Again, I don’t ignore him only voice my thoughts very directly and it comes off like a bitch but all I say is for him to talk like an adult.

How do you go from ignoring someone for days to suddenly wanting to get her pregnant? It makes no sense? Idk if this cycle will repeat again? So let’s say if I do get pregnant? Will he just leave?