New Friends As An Adult

Hi, I'm 25 and trying to figure out how adults make new friends 😅

Sorry it's a long one

I had friends until I was 20. They liked parties and drugs etc and I'd just spend time with them at sleepovers just us so they'd smoke but put no pressure on me or anything. Both my friends had an argument and stopped talking, but whenever I was with each of them all they'd do is bitch about the other, so we stopped taking too.

Soon after that me and my partner moved town since we were both from different places we wanted something new for us both. I had a friend who lived 4 hours away that I met online when I was 15, and invited her to spend the weekend at my house but after that she went home and blocked me. Still wont tell me what I did years later and she was my best friend too, and basically the last friend I've had. By 21 I was pregnant, still just friends with my partners friends when they were already over, that sort of thing.

I have 3 old school friends an hour away that I occasionally message online. We get on quite well and we all have kids, but they never message me first so we can go months not talking because I feel like I'm bothering them.

I'm 25, and I can't afford to work because of nursery fees so can't make work friends, and my cars broken so I can't travel far. The only other adults I regularly see other than family are mums in the (2 hours free/day) nursery queue and they're all twice my age.

Any ideas how I can make friends at this age?? I just dreamt I had friends and it's made for a depressing start to the day 🙃