How do you orgasm during sex? Any tips??

Hi ladies!

I’ve been with my current boyfriend for about 3 months now and we’ve only had sex a few times because we’re in a long distance relationship—maybe 5-6 times max. He’s a great guy and spends a lot of time going down on me, asking me what I like, asking for feedback, etc. all to make me feel good. I just haven’t been able to orgasm though and I was wondering if any of you ladies have any tips that work for you or just things you find help you personally to orgasm? It could be during penetrative sex, oral sex, the other person touching you, anything! I know orgasm isn’t everything during sex but I would like to be able to orgasm with him :) Thank you in advance!