How do you find time for sex???

Question

I never thought I would come across this issue. We have three kids 9,11 and four months. The baby sleeps in our room and wakes up often. 
How do you guys find time??
I feel like we lost our imtimacy. It’s embarrassing to say that I feel weird trying to initiate or get intimate. I don’t know why. We’ve had sex once since our baby was born in October. He doesn’t pressure me at all but I know he misses it. And I do too. 
How do you guys with multiples find time to have sex? 
How do you make yourself feel sexy again so you feel like initiating sex? I’m not even worried about my weight or that. I just feel like I’m constantly in mom
Mode and can’t get into wife mode. 
I just want to release this sexy beast again but I feel like there is no time and I lost how to! 
Please give me some tips, tricks advice!

Answer

We have 4 kids, they're 11, 7, 5 & 1. We have sex at night after they've gone to bed. Usually the last one goes down by 9:30 and we end up staying up til 1-2 am just hanging out. We use that time to have sex, watch our shows, have some drinks, play board games etc. This is 3-4x a week. He's only home on weekends so we like to spend all our free time doing things together. Daytime sex generally only happens if the kids are at school and baby is napping. 😏 rare time though because that's my husband's time to play on his Xbox or the computer.

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Sorry, no advice - just wanted to say you’re not alone! Switching between mama and wife is a challenge. I’m just over here hoping it’ll get easier with time 😅😔

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Just with one baby we felt touched out and exhausted beyond belief within the first year. Completely just surviving. I wouldn't expect it any different with two older kids and a baby.
I would try and talk about it. Me and my husband agreed to be in a state of just surviving but wanted to try getting more hugs and kisses in a day. That's how we dealt with it. It gets easier when you don't have a baby anymore 😊

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Honestly, my daughter is 16 months almost and I’m 26 weeks pregnant, I will distract her with toys and have sex with my husband, May be frowned upon but 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

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Buy yourself a magic wand. Go play with it. Let him catch you. Ended well for me but my husband bought it for me and I love that thing. He can take the kids for less than 3 minutes and you're good. We have 2 kids, a 5 month old and 4 year old, both clingy children. You cant poop alone. My husband and I call it "a wrinkle in time" or "a glitch in the matrix" because we can hardly get 5-10 minutes without a child needing something. Haha it's fun being sporadic. This is how we do it. Good luck.

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We have sex when everyone is in their rooms asleep. I have 4 children. 8, twin 6 year olds and an almost 2 year old.

How do you find time for sex???

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