Is he respectful of my friend's wishes

Linda, a mum friend of mine for 2 months dated a guy off mature dating, we call him Seb.

According to Seb he's a virgin at 30 and asked her to be his first. They went on a couple of dates public ones and she now wishes to go to the Uncharted movie, but he has changed his ways after two months, refusing to come down to see her in her suburb and claiming she has to come over. She texted me last night and says lately his talk has become sex, he says he only has a two bed apartment so she cannot bring her child to the house, he has no netflix and no backyard, so he shut down her child saying that. He then refused to go to Uncharted because he asked her for a BJ Valentine's Day but she had refused, saying they should go to Uncharted. She texted me what he said that he refused to go to the movies because he is not getting what he wants for Valentine's Day, a BJ. (She went out shopping bought him a watch, told him she had a gift, but he only wants one gift).

She has set her boundary that after 6 or 12 months she will do anything sexual. I have looked into Google and asked West my ex and he thinks that Seb has trust issues and thinks sex can solve them, therapy I have asked online also said it is some kind of trust problem, where he fears if he starts dating he

So what does the Glow universe think?