Different love language than partner

How have you dealt with your partner having a different love language than you? I’m not a super touchy feely person especially when I start to get stressed. My partner definitely likes to be touched or touch me. They know that I don’t like it and they’ve tried to keep their feelings at bay about it but now they have exploded stating that they feel like I don’t want them but I don’t think I can change the way my body reacts to being touched especially when I don’t want to be.. if that makes sense. Advice?