Lying about jerking off..

So me and my husbands sex life has kinda sucked recently, and he hasn’t been able to finish and we’ll just say “ oh I give up I tried” and lay back on his side of the bed and it always makes me feel like absolute shit cause I feel like I did something wrong and he’s not attracted to me.. well last night Was like any other night after we put out daughter down I took a shower ( remember this that I took a shower before anything) and was laying in bed calming down.. he comes up 2hrs later and we you know well he didn’t finish and this was the 3rd time it happened in a row... and he got up and took a bath right after and I thought nothing of it was still alittle sad but I was slowly realizing it may be a problem with him inside..

Well the night passes and the next day I’m packing more ( we’re moving soon) and I am packing our bathroom and I open the shower and there is lube by my lufa and like I said I showered before anything. And there was no lube by it.

So I went and picked him up from work for lunch cause we’re sharing a car while his gets fixed, and he goes can you throw some spicy chicken nuggets on for me I have to run to the mechanics real quick. And JOKINGLY I said “I’m sure you can take care of your self” and laughed and he’s like huh?? And I said I found your lube. And he’s like oh you finally found it and I’m like yeah after your bath last night and he’s like no it’s been there for a couple days now like 4 or 5. And I’m like no I took a shower before your bath and the way it’s placed it would’ve fallen when I grabbed my lufa... and he got so grumpy and shut down and wouldn’t talk the rest of the ride home. And I’m like why are you mad and he’s like cause you won’t believe me when I say it’s been there for awhile. And I’m like ok. It’s been there for a while.

But I know for a fact it hasn’t... and now I feel even worse cause he can’t finish when having sex but can finish when it’s just him..