Husband's ex lying about baby Being his..🤦‍♀️

So this will probably be long... but we/I need advice.

So back-story me and my husband's relationship was in the fast lane from start til present. We had known of one another and were "friends" from him knowing my cousins ex wife. Anyway I had always known that he was the type of person to never be alone like he always felt like he needed a relationship so he wasn't lonely until he met his ex we'll call her K for this story.. they met while in rehab my hubby went to rehab for over a year and while there they met and decided to "date" until they got back with their exs that they were with prior to being in rehab. To me that's weird but to each their own..

Hubs didn't end up back with his ex because she did the same thing to him prior to rehab made him believe he was her unborn babies father and he wasnt.. but K did indeed get back with her ex ..

So anyway they were together for like two months he started staying at her house, well while he lived there she would travel back to her home town in a different part of the state we live in like every weekend. My husband didn't really care cause he quickly learned he was able to drink without it being an issue with her because she was gone. HE WENT TO REHAB FOR OPIATES NOT ALCOHOL... So anyway things aren't working out and my hubby starts to suspect she's cheating on him with her ex(who lives in her home town) so he breaks up with her and decides to leave. The day he left she showed him she started her period because she had told him she thought she was pregnant. So he was relieved because he didn't want a baby with her, mind you this is a week and a half before Thanksgiving that year. So my hubs goes on with his life Christmas and NY Pass and he ends up moving out of town to work on some ranches. The end of February rolls around and K decided to text my hub and tell him shes pregnant and she was just afraid to tell him. We started dating at the end of December after their breakup but since he was a few hours away we did long distance until he came back home. So anyway she tells him she's pregnant and he tells me and I was like wtf why did she wait so long to tell you?? He said what she told him that she was afraid to tell him blah blah so I was immediately like this is a huge red flag. Well she ends up telling him she slept with her ex in DECEMBER but she was already pregnant. So for the first ultrasound Hub was allowed to go to he said she was really weird and wouldn't allow him in the room until they were half way through the scan.. after she tried to get back with him and he was like heck no I'm with my wife but were still doing the gender reveal in two weeks so we can act like we're together to show face & she wasn't happy about it and ended up posting the babies gender and NEW name on social media (Hubs and K had already picked out names) after his family planned and payed for the entire gender reveal.. so anyway she cuts him off after that and he kept texting and calling for updates on the baby she wouldn't respond. So he finally comes home and we start hanging out & he moved in with me immediately... during this time he shows me the Pic of the ultrasound and I notice the GA at the top and I asked him if he was having sex with her anytime in December or after that he said no he was at the ranch that whole time so I mentioned to him that the babies Gestational Age in the scan was way off to what she should be if she had gotten pregnant in November (when they last had sex) so he asked me to look up the date of conception according to her due date. her due date was Sept 7th. So I pulled it up and her estimated conception date was the middle of December. So then he tells me how she started her period and she showed him she started and about her sleeping with her ex in December and I just told him I thought that was sketch and If I were him I'd ask for a DNA test. So I left it at that. We go on with our lives and he would reach out about her and the babies well being and she blocked everyone except my in laws, so we all thought that was weird. Anyway time passes and I asked him if he had heard anything about her going into labor he said no so he asked his mom she said that she was in labor and nobody was allowed there so my hubs reaches out and tells her if he can go see the baby and she said no, the next day his dad calls and tells us he's headed to the hospital to see the baby. So that pissed my hubs off. so a week or so passes and he asked if he could go see the baby and he wanted to talk with her she said no that he could txt her.. so he did and he broughtup his concerns on the due date and everything and she said "well I'm pretty sure she is yours but you can have a DNA Test" then blocked him. So my in laws started reaching out and asking for a DNA test as well and she just ignored everyone unless they were offering to help with diapers wipes baby items etc..

So we all as a family sat down and discussed the concerns and game plan on what to do going forward except my MIL she was dead set that the baby was Hubs (she's always wanted a grandchild she could see alot because Hubs daughter C her mom doesn't allow anybody you see her) and didn't care otherwise so that caused some tension with her and my hubs. a few weeks to a month or so passes and K decides to send Hubs a Pic of the baby and it sent him on a downward spiral because she resembled his daughter C and so he kind of lost his crap so him and I discussed what HE WANTED TO DO he said he was going to secretly get a DNA test but he thinks she's his. During this time we miscarried and fell pregnant again and so I was a little stressed out because he started drinking over the situation.

So we kind of just take it day by day and don't really talk about it. Well for NYE & NY he decided to go out on a 4day drinking binge and was really overwhelmed about the situation with K and I was just over it because K was very difficult on giving everyone closure. . So the day before he goes on this drinking binge K texts hubs and said Hey my Ex T find out your the babies dad and is looking for your number I'm just letting you know just in case he starts crap..

So hubs said okay and left it at that.. until he received a FB Msg from T the ex. He said in the msg word for word "Hey Hubs(his real name) I just wanted to reach out because I seen your Fb POST with the babies picture and introducing her to everyone as your daughter? me and K were trying for a baby in OCT NOV & DEC and so I'm wondering when you supposedly got her pregnant? I'm not trying to start crap but I've been there for K &baby since the day she got pregnant I only missed One ultrasound and

K assured me I'm the only possible father to the baby so can I call you to get your side of the story" so hubs sends him his number and T calls and they discuss each other's time line of when they were with K. Hubs tells T he left a week and a half before Thanksgiving and wasn't with her at all after that. T explains he was with her every weekend since Oct and moved in with her on THANKSGIVING she was on her period when he moved in and so they started TTC again in December then got a BFP at the end of December which adds up to her conception date. T ALSO Tells hubs that K said she never told hubs she was pregnant that him and his family saw she was pregnant on social media and reached out to Her and said they think the baby is his 😡 so hubs sends all the screenshots of her telling him she'pregnant and everything else. So hubs and T both found out she'd been telling BOTH OF THEM AND THEIR FAMILIES that each of them were the babies dad.. so this pissed everyone off and hubs texted K and told her to leave his family alone until she Woman's Up and gives each men a DNA test. So After a few days pass she agrees to one and tells hubs he needed to pay for it. She texted him after he got home from his Binger. So he text her back okay and took a few days to rest and detox . So he decided that after long thoughts and discussions between him and I that he wasn't going to pay for a DNA test because she decided to lie to TWO SEPERATE families and two different men. He text K & told her he wasn't going t. Pay for the DNA test and she needed to pay for it so she went out and bought a HOME DNA Home paternity test kit and asked Hubs to meet her on Friday to go take it, he agreed.

I forgot to add in K & T have two other kids together and the baby legit looks identical to her siblings and T.

So I guess I'm asking for yalls input and advice on what we should do or what hubs should do and I guess we want anyone's thoughts on the situation because to me it's been a huge RED flag from the beginning.

Clarification-we were already an "item" before we told him she was pregnant. I honestly probably wouldn't of dated him if he'd known before because to me that's just a respect thing.

K has stated to MIL that she's jealous of what me and hubs have together and she feels like I stole that from her... even though she cheated on hubs the whole relationship then tried to get him back by lying about a pregnancy. Mind

you we don't know if Hubs and T are the only two men she was having sex with during the time of conception.

When we got pregnant Hubs decided to ask Our OB about Ts conception date and due date and what his thoughts were on the probability of the baby being hubs... OB Stated unless hubs slept with her in December then it's close to IMPOSSIBLE for the baby to be HUBS .. Also the one Ultrasound Hubs was "allowed" to go to was the one T wasn't allowed to go to.

So to me K was very calculated in her actions and decisions .

What're your thoughts on this situation?

If you made it through this whole post thank you and I appreciate any and all feedback.

Me and Hubs got pregnant in Aug of last year and got married in December of last year as well.