I can’t do this anymore!

Please I need an advice because I feel like I’m going crazy. My father in law keeps making faces everytime im around. He never wants to carry my daughter and always make excuses so he doesn’t have to be around my her. It doesn’t matter how nice I try to be to him he just gives me the cold shoulder. I finally had enough! I used to be nice to my husband’s family but I decided not to come around anymore. What do you know it’s been 4 months since the last time they saw my daughter because i dont longer reach out to them. To be specific unless I reach out them they

Don’t usually call or check up on my daughter.They invited me to a party a couple of days ago but i decided not to go. I knew exactly what was going to happened if I went. This situation has been going on for years. To be exact since my husband and I got married. I can’t keep being around them and pretend like they’re behaving is okay. I can’t let my daughter go through this anymore! She’s enough and does not deserve what they do to her. My husband is blinded by love. If his dad goes up to my daughter and refuses to hug her for my husband the simple fact that he went up to her is good enough. Please someone help me! I feel like my feelings are valid but maybe I’m exaggerating.