Age ≠ maturity….

Honestly I know he didn’t deserve my time or energy, but the gaslighting really got to me. First screenshot was back February 4. He messaged me over a month later “want to still have sex? Or are you done with me” (I didn’t have a screenshot of that one). I didn’t respond. Then he responded with the other two yesterday and today. This man is in his mid 30s and it’s insane to me how I know someone who is 21 and more emotionally mature. If you’re ever gaslit, don’t put up with that crap. I wish I didn’t go on but I’m glad I did.

Little bit of back story I told him after he moved near me and told me he didn’t want anything serious just to screw around, I sensed myself catching feelings and told him friends only. Ended up getting drunk at a BBQ and gave him two blowjobs and he said nothing. Then when I got weak missing him and asked him for sex I became a hypocrite. Anyone ever deal with this? I’m just venting tbh and gaslighting really gets to me because of personal reasons. And yes I changed his name in my phone cause I have just been disgusted with his childish behavior after I last saw him then his response to me asking for sex after, again, no issue with blowjobs the weekend before. Figured it fit the feelings.