My son

My son is now 2 years and 1month old he sleeps pretty easy at night but at some point he wakes up and he comes in our bed to sleep with us and mainly he wants me. When my husband tries to calm him down or hug him he doesnt want him he wants me. He generally goes through a phase where he is not a very good eater he used to eat everything. I dont know we hat to do with him and i also have another son that he is now one years old. Im really tired and i feel like lm losing control.