I need advice

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TW for anyone that needs it, this post talks about abortion and potentially but unlikely getting one

So I’m 21, my boyfriend is 20. I recently found out I’m probably pregnant (won’t know for sure until Dr appt on 3/31 but I am getting positive tests). This wasn’t exactly planned, but I am accepting it with open arms. The minute I saw those two lines I knew I’d be okay not having as much freedom, having to budget more, getting less sleep. I was okay with being pregnant.

My boyfriend on the other hand is not. He keeps pressuring me to get an abortion I don’t want. I keep telling him I’ll think about it, but the more I think about it the more I don’t want one and the more I’m attached to this baby. Every time I bring it up though he says I’m not considering his feelings or our situation. He reminds me we would have to move as we’re in a 1 bedroom right now, and we’re not financially stable enough for a child. He says he’s not ready to be a dad.

I feel very bad for him, but also, he chose not to wear a condom, and I made it very clear when we first got together that I’m pro choice but not for myself; that I could never get an abortion and be okay with it.

I just don’t know how to share my side of things to him without him resenting me or leaving me. Has anyone been in a similar situation, or have any advice?