Distancing myself from my bf

So theres's a lot to it. We moved into our own place 6months ago. We both work in retail but I work waay more than him so I get paid more. It's not that he doesn't have the opportunity to work more it's just that he hates to work. The way he behaves at work is very embarassing he disrespects the costumers, coworkers and his boss.

Not to mention that I found the place where we live, I went to look at it I did all the work. He also refused to build the furniture because "it's too tiring" so I had to call my dad and brother to do it or I did it myself. I honestly feel like I'm the man in the relationship and I'm so desperate to feel vurnerable and secure and just simply feminen in the relationship.

Not to mention that he does no work at home either. I have to do everything or if I don't we would live in a mess. I'm just so done with feeling like this. I want the person back that he was when we first started dating. I try to tell him these things but he gets mad. And this makes me distance myself emotionally and sexually and I just don't know what to do anymore. I really thought that he is the one but lately I doubt that and I think about breaking up a lot. And that makes me sad and angry. Any advice what I can do to make the relationship work again? Or am I overreacting?