I don’t know how to feel…

Okay so I have this close fwb. Basically we do things and will tell each other we love each other. We have known each other for 14 years. Just as friends but moved to fwb for about two years. He keeps saying I’m the one. But I’ve been through a lot and the past relationships I’ve been in things make me cautious. We can like share anything. He wanted me to come over for the weekend and I did. He plans movies for us to watch, foods to eat, he cooks great, and I will treat him with foods etc as well. I really like him so much. We talk mostly everyday and night. There’s times he gets quiet and he will say he’s sorry his guys or whatever came over and he didn’t wanna be rude I said that’s fine. I totally understand that. I respected that he had his friends over and I’ve always said just text me whenever you’re not busy. So when I came over this weekend I just didn’t feel right. I don’t even pick up my phone and text anyone unless you know it’s something like I need to respond to or what not and I just leave my phone wherever. He would do the same. It’s just this weekend he went just on and off I guess texting and he would mention it’s his “friends etc “. One was his buddy’s girlfriend asking a question about something. Just kept going back and forth to the phone. I just felt like it was rude. I was going to leave Monday evening but I ended up falling asleep and waking up like at 10:30pm. He kept huffing and puffing sighing… he said yeah he was suppose to do laundry that day at a female friend house and she’s upset has an attitude that he didn’t go. I told him he could have left me asleep I wouldn’t have known or better yet I could have gave him money to do his laundry at his complex. I don’t even know what to think. He’s always talking about this girl, going over there frequently, she apparently has a “gf”, but just it seems like he’s mentioning her all the time even in our conversations.. basically this whole weekend he was texting her or whatever.. and mad over laundry? He said she was irritating him since he didn’t come. Look I really like this guy a lot. But I don’t expect a man to drop friends for me. That’s not the type of person I am. If Im going into a relationship I try to do what’s right. I have maybe 3 female friends. No guy friends. The past relationship I was in I was cheated on cause my ex had female friends. I think for me to be in a relationship with someone I should find someone that doesn’t have female friends so I don’t drive myself insane.. what to do??!!!!i