Women Provider

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I was raised that the man should be the provider of the house, but lately I feel like I've been the one paying for everything. It's always been 50/50 but, recently he hasn't been able to have a stable job, and he's been unemployed for a while. He owes me money, and I know he'll pay me back, but there's also bills and other stuff to pay. I'm not a person that likes to charge people, and I don't know if it's wrong of me to rush my boyfriend to find a job. I'm at the point where I don't know what to do. I love helping him, specially since his mom doesn't care about his situation, but, I don't know what to do anymore.