So ya I’m 38 and I’m primenopausal (tmi)

My symptoms plus my period changed,

I probably been for a couple of years now. But I know I am now.

I’m moved into a new house. Been working on my garden . And dealt with my first af in my new place it started with a big clot (for me) and then a normal high flow for two days till it went to a spotting it lasted for five days. I am now cramping around ovulation my “fertile “ week started today but my bbs have been tender since last months ovulation. They stayed tender even after I stopped my period. Then three days ago they were tender more I noticed. Just my luck.

I have two adult children and one fifteen year old so I’m good on that front.

But should I go to my doctors to get checked or just go when I feel like I should …