Any advice?

So iv been with my other half for going on 8 years and when we have a disagreement he always bring up how I don't talk enough? And I don't get how like I do talk intalk about what I done at collage today and random things but if I ho quite for an hour or so he like your quite and that's just because I have nothing to say we live together but I always get you don't talk enough to be fair he can talk about pretty much anything he is a talker but iam not on the other hand iv always been quite and when he says your quite it's like I have to think of things to say because I don't want thrown in my face that I don't talk enough any advice on this I feel worn down by it to be honest