Scared to get heartbroken again ?

So sometimes when I feel like I’m scared that I might get my heart broken again I definitely try not to let it be so known when I’m just newly talking to somebody. But how do you kind of find a common ground in yourself to let a good situation and see how it will work out ?

Because yesterday I openly was talking about something that I was thinking about and somehow I just came out and I asked him like you know like what were his intentions and he said of course to end up being together because I wouldn’t put time into something that I feel I didn’t want to do. Then he shocked me lol when he asked the same question 😂🤯

We’ve been talking for a few days so it’s been good. which to me is a good response for him to say But I’m of course you know I’m trying to be more openly cautious and definitely not get swept up in the happy of you know liking if someone too much that I end up overlooking the red flags.

I really want something to work but of course time will tell so We will see